Taking an international plane trip with the boys was not nearly as bad as we feared it might be. The way there was easy. O was out cold before dinner was even served (is was about 10PM then) and N, after eating his entire meal and part of his father's, slept almost until we landed. Then, after picking up our car and making our way to the bungalow park where we stayed, they crashed for a good nap. They did not want to sleep that evening, however, and bedtimes were a bit tough. We ended up separating them and each sleeping with one boy (note to self: don't put the boys together in one room until they've matured a bit).


The bungalow park was fabulous - it had everything we needed including a playground and the biggest sand box you've ever seen.




Opa and Omie were a few doors down, and could pop in for bedtime stories.

We bought the boys their own clogs (those who were at the rehearsal dinner before our wedding might remember that J and I received some of these, as well as some teasing before the strings were cut and we were permitted to walk free).


We had lots of fun exploring the many lovely gardens belonging to friends and family.

The boys gained a passing familiarity with the true Dutch National Religion:


And we had many wonderful meals (here with a cousin on my father's side of the family -they live in an old teahouse which used to belong to the main house of an estate).



Oom Ke*an was a popular guy.




The beach near Den Haag (the Hague)

The boys are still asking for "patat met" (fries with mayonnaise)

We spent a bit of time at Oma's (my grandmother's) house, where I got to show the boys all the things that are pretty much unchanged from my own childhood.

They had no trouble finding all the little paths that run all over the property.


My parents' initials, put there by Jaap decades ago.

The chicken coop.



Tea with Opa and Omie after swimming.
On the summer solstice, the whole family gathered. There was an engagement announcement, much story-telling, and getting to meet the newest member of the youngest generation. This is Bella, the daughter of my oldest cousin, Eveli*en.


There were toasts, and a few tears, and my grandmother re-told the story of how she and my grandfather (who passed away in the mid-1980's) came to live in this house 50 years ago.


The night before we went back, we had dinner with old friends. The little girl on the right is the daughter of
my oldest friend, Mari*lou. She and I have known each other since we were babies, and shared many vacations together with our families. She's probably partly responsible for the fact that I still speak decent Dutch, as I distinctly remember her telling me to try harder when I kept lapsing into English on a trip to Maine when we were young teens. It was very special to watch my boys and her daughter sitting there having soup together.


We were sorry to go, but have many wonderful memories, and the boys still talk about Holland constantly, asking when we will go back again. When I told N it might be a long time, he cried.
Thank you to all our Dutch friends and family, who were so very hospitable to us, and who we now have to miss again for who knows how long. We are grateful to be a part of your lives, even from a vast distance.