The very first day the neighborhood kiddie pool was open, we went. And the next day, and the day after that. When they're not in the pool, they're imitating fish or asking to go to the pool. I think these boys are going to like actually swimming when they get that far! We have two kiddie pools and a lake beach within walking distance, and meet up with friends 2 or 3 times a week to either go to the playground or the pool. These days, I even get to sit on a bench and chat with the other moms. I know, it's rough...
We got a bit of sad news this past week when we learned we're going to lose our giant backyard elm tree to Dutch Elm Disease. It will cost a pretty penny to remove, and it's loss will change the landscape of our yard and surrounding yards dramatically.
It's the largest elm in the immediate neighborhood by far, and it's a good 25 or more years older than our 1926 house. We'll plant another tree or two right away, and hope that we have at least some shade again in a few years. It's so sad that the city is losing all these trees to this disease, but also a reminder that planting pretty much only one species over an entire city is a terrible idea. At least we are slowly rebuilding the arbor the Midwest is known for and replacing the mono-culture with a diverse, and therefore less vulnerable, assortment of trees.
We recently had a nice family meal together at a local cafe, celebrating all the fathers and one father-to-be. We end up at this hippyish place kind of by accident, as the place we'd intended to meet at was closed, but the outdoor patio worked really well for our group. I've actually been coming to this particular cafe on and off for about 15 years! In all that time, the menu has remained pretty much the same.

Somehow, Oliv*er always ends up trying on Uncle Scot*t's hat.
I love the picture above, because it depicts the wonderful chaos that our family gatherings are becoming. Emi*ly's holding Zo*e so that Jenni*fer can eat, Jennif*er is going to get some forgotten item, and I'm not even at the same table as everyone else. Everyone stayed happy, and everyone eventually got to eat. That's all that matters, right?
I don't exactly understand why, but whenever we take the boys to a restaurant, they eat like they have hollow legs. Should I be taking this personally? I'm going to choose not to, because they eat very well in general, and if they'd just keep their rear ends in their seats and quit trying to touch toes under the table, mealtimes would be golden.
It was a very busy weekend. Jo*el hosted a very nice piano duet recital that involved 17 of his students. He and a friend who plays the clarinet played five preludes at the end. The parents got together and gave him a huge gift certificate to a local cafe and a bunch of babysitting money - very thoughtful, I'd say. After the recital, we went out for dinner while Meag*an babysat. Yesterday morning, the boys and I went walking around the grounds of Theodore Wi*rth Park in the early AM to kill some time while Jo*el rehearsed at church a few blocks away. It was our anniversary, so it was an odd coincidence to be there exactly seven years after our wedding took place there, yet without Jo*el. The garbage truck came to pick up the garbage from somebody else's big event, and the boys enjoyed watching that. Someday they'll understand the significance of that place for us, but yesterday it was all about the "Beep! Beep! Beep!" of the garbage truck backing up. After our walk, the boys and I met Jo*el at the church, I dropped the boys off at the nursery, and attended services. Afterwards, we went to the all church picnic, where the boys again filled their hollow legs.



















































